You criticised me for showing only my 'best face' in this blog, that I've kept parts of my life private including my social life.

As it appears to have failed your notice, this is a divorce website, not  a chart of my monthly flow or a social calander detailing my every move. I come here to discuss the demise of our marriage and the impact that has had on myself and Saffron.

You called me a 'workshy lazy pig.' You said that the house was 'always a state.' You called me an alcoholic who sleeps around. Then you say we need therapy to make things work.

I'm sick of the constant criticism and name

I have no idea how he managed to track it down, but he has and he's read it from start to finish. He was aware of my membership for this site, and my user name is basically my own name so I guess it wouldn't take much, but I feel strangely violated.

He admitted this morning that he'd read it. Apparently it has make him realise the hurt his actions have had on our family, the repercussions of his behaviour. He wants to meet up tonight to discuss our future.

He also now knows I've been seeing someone else; I'm mortified he's had to find this out via an online blog.

I won't be censoring my writing

I've moved out of the house. I could dwell on the negative, how my husband refused to enter the premises to sort his things out, how I spent days meticulously going through our possessions, packing my things and his, how he then refused to collect his crap and furniture so a friend had to help me dump it on his parent's driveway, how one of our cats ran away and the other got run over, how our daughter has turned into a madam,  how utterly heartbreaking and bewildering I've found this whole situation, but I won't.

Instead I'll focus on the positives. I have left our marital home and refound my