It's my Life

Posted by Angel557 in moving on, dealing with the court, attending court, abuse and violence

Weds 20th feb 2008 , meet ex again at court he was nice and late bought that thing with him again.Felt we were in front of that judge for hours , nice to see he had to consult her about everything, hmmm i was once only his wife he never consulted me about nothing.Anyway thats the past me being with him,I'm glad i went to court on weds as seeing him again has released me from his spell i no longer have feelings for him only dislike which is good i feel i can get on with things now.Nice of him to say ladies first going in before the judge opening the door should of known he was only going to open it for my brief and let it go in my face.On way back to side room she gave me a filthy look from the waiting room in return she got 1 back from me , who does she think she is looking at me it had nothing to do with her.In that side room ex was cocky this time and a creep rather than aggressive but still had that way about him to try and be a bully he did tell me i was'nt normal because of the career i want to do judge said nothing to that remark, i did like the round of applause he gave me he must of watch fridays Eastender's early oh he was like max, he can't see beyond his nose his parents have disowned him due to the way he has treated his kids not anything to do with me.So after many years of verbal, phyiscal, mental and emtional abuse i 'am free he can no longer do or say anything because i don't care he cannot stop me living my life.It has taken a long while for me to get to this stage and i hope this is it no going backwards now with my feelings and emotion's as this feels great.

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mike62 said:

February 23, 2008
		Angel, You have been on an incredible journey. On that many will thankfully never have to make. You have stood by your children, through thick and thin, always putting them before anything. Many people would have given up a long time ago. But you have had the tenacity to stick by your guns and take it on the chin, physically, emotionally and financially. You have more strength in your middle finger than he will have in his entire life. One day soon, you will be able to raise that middle finger and remind him of his inadequacy as a husband, man and human being. Your journey is not over yet, but it seems that you have turned a definitive corner and left the abuse behind. Who is the bigger person in all this? Your children will reassure you of that for many, many years to come. Well done to you for keeping it together for yourself and your kids, despite appalling challenges. You can only go from strength to strength. Stay strong, and pat yourself on the back. You are nearly there. Take care, Mike

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scottishlady said:

February 24, 2008
		Angel...... I hope and pray that your feelings continue...... hang onto them.... you deserve SO much more than to be treated so appallingly by this man!!!!! SL

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starry_eyes said:

February 24, 2008
		Well done Angel, you've done so well to be so strong. It must of been a really tough day in court, especially seeing your stbx and his partner, but you remained focused even though it must of been emotionally tough. When you think of where you are now and where you were before youv come a long long way, good for you for not letting him get the better of you. Your nearing the top of the mountain now emotionally, keep it up! Hugs starry

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