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Feb 27
2010
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Perfect Weekend!Posted by Itgetsbetter in positive thinking, new relationships, moving on, happiness, good day |
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I have not blogged for a while, been too busy and have not felt the need or compulsion. This weekend has already been so good, that I felt it might help to share it and give some optimism for anyone staring out on their divorce.
It started yesterday evening when my partner and I met up for dinner with a Wiki friend and his new partner. I hadn't seen the Wiki friend for ages and was really pleased for him at how well he looked and at how happy he was with his life now. His new partner was great and we all had a lovely meal and some excellent conversation!
My partner stayed over and we have had a great day. Did a walk in the rain this morning whilst the kids had a lay in, then did bacon sarnies all round, then my parents came over and we walked to the local chocolate shop and had some great hot chocolates, coffees and chocolate cake - if anyone lives in the Chilterns we went to Romseys in Wendover. Came back home and England losing at rugby was a bit of a downer, but that's out of my hands!
My partner had to go home as she had to collect her kids, then I picked up 2 of my daugther's friends for a sleepover, cooked a brilliant chicken risotto, and now chilling out with a well earned glass of wine while the girls are downstairs singing Pixi Lott songs! Son is in his room playing on his Playstation!
Two years ago I was in the depths of despair over my wifes affair and her continuing to see the guy. A year ago I felt really low after being made redundant and having to sell the marital home. Now I am divorced. I have my own house which I and the kids love, I have some great family who have been there for me, I have made some really good friends, I have a truly gorgeous partner, Life is good!
Believe me, it does get better!
Have a great evening!
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AJB_29
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| February 27, 2010 | ||
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what a lovely blog, It will keep me going in the right direction. its very inspiring. Ive had an offer on my MH this weekend so im at my next step and it feels scary but good. AJB x |
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Mitchum
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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Can you see us all lining up behind you all wishing for some of your contentment to rub off on us? Your happiness shines through your blog and it's so good to read and to realise that sometime, hopefully sooner rather than later, the bad days will diminish and the good days will eventually dawn. Thank you for sharing. Mitchum x |
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NellNoRegrets
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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Itgetsbetter I am sure you know how pleased I am for you. It would be great if we could see how much better things can get when we are in the depths of misery, wouldn't it? Thanks for sharing - you are right, it does get better! Love Nell xx |
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startagain
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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Hi Thanks for this. You were one of the first to comment on my first post in August 09 which as the lowest point I have ever been in my life. What you wrote and your advice really. really helped me believe I could get through this. I also think it is fantastic that you still find the time to log on and help others on this site. You have a kind heart and you offer honest sound advice. Yes you are right it does get better, but more importantly you get better at dealing with things. Glad that Life is good for you now. Take care |
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SG2008
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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Lovely to hear that things are going so well for you now Itgetsbetter. It takes time ,but life realy does get better. I have to say my life now is better than ever before, and mainly thanks to wiki and all my lovely wiki freinds xx |
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Pheonix2yk9
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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itgetsbetter I am glad that you had a great weekend Its a long road but a road that makes us that much stronger in all of us Take care Pheonix |
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julesm
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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Hi IGB I am so pleased to be reading this blog. I have to agree, it does get better, but as I have been told by so many, time is a great healer. As time has gone on, my life has improved and you get more adept at dealing with things, which has already been said. Wishing you well for the future Jules |
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