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Feb 27
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Mike62? Who the hell is he?Posted by mike62 in new relationships, moving on |
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Well, long time no see. I took a long break from Wikivorce because it was becoming an addiction, and I needed to focus on some real-life issues to start my new single life.
A lot of water under the bridge in the last 12 months, and what a poo 12 months they have been for me. The stbx gets closer to the asylum every day. The business has had the worst year on record and, like many others, I am clinging on by my fingernails and praying for better times.
However, despite all of that, something has happened which has completely changed my life. I met someone new, someone who really cares and do you know what? That makes pretty well anything bearable.
3 years ago, when the bottom dropped out of my life, the last thing on earth that I wanted to contemplate was a relationship. I was so not interested. But as many wise people told me in my darkest days, time is a great healer. And blow me down, they are so right.
I am a very diferent person to the sorry excuse for a human that arrived at wikivorce in July 2007. Stronger, more confident, happier than I have been in years. And that very special someone (A top wikibird too I might add), along with many other wikimates (you know who you are!) helped me enormously to get there.
So I guess what I am saying is that however crap it all seems, however much the light at the end of the dark twisting tunnel seems like the 11.46 from Waterloo coming to get ya, you never know what is around the next corner. And it can be wonderful. So hang on in there.
I am not about to return to my 'lets see how many posts I can answer in a day' period. I will come and go and say hi to my many dear friends here and try to help a few more poor souls through the quagmire that is relationship breakdown. And its nice to be back.
Wishing you all well in your lives and just want you to know that it DOES get SOOOOOOOOOO much better - Honest! ;)
A lot of water under the bridge in the last 12 months, and what a poo 12 months they have been for me. The stbx gets closer to the asylum every day. The business has had the worst year on record and, like many others, I am clinging on by my fingernails and praying for better times.
However, despite all of that, something has happened which has completely changed my life. I met someone new, someone who really cares and do you know what? That makes pretty well anything bearable.
3 years ago, when the bottom dropped out of my life, the last thing on earth that I wanted to contemplate was a relationship. I was so not interested. But as many wise people told me in my darkest days, time is a great healer. And blow me down, they are so right.
I am a very diferent person to the sorry excuse for a human that arrived at wikivorce in July 2007. Stronger, more confident, happier than I have been in years. And that very special someone (A top wikibird too I might add), along with many other wikimates (you know who you are!) helped me enormously to get there.
So I guess what I am saying is that however crap it all seems, however much the light at the end of the dark twisting tunnel seems like the 11.46 from Waterloo coming to get ya, you never know what is around the next corner. And it can be wonderful. So hang on in there.
I am not about to return to my 'lets see how many posts I can answer in a day' period. I will come and go and say hi to my many dear friends here and try to help a few more poor souls through the quagmire that is relationship breakdown. And its nice to be back.
Wishing you all well in your lives and just want you to know that it DOES get SOOOOOOOOOO much better - Honest! ;)
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rubytuesday
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| February 27, 2010 | ||
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Mike, Lovely Mike - You have been missed. Im delighted for you that you have found someone special  You are spot on (as always!) about having someone in your life who makes all the crappy things bearable. Im sure that your kind, thoughtful and wise words and advice will be of great benefit to those who are still struggling through their journey - and your blog an inspiration, not just to newbies, but to old wikibirds like me  Ruth x |
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rasher
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| February 27, 2010 | ||
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How lovely but I knew when the time was right you would let someone walk alongside you once again. We need relationships otherwise we wouldnt be so devestated when they go wrong. So glad to hear happy news of you. x | |
Poppie
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| February 27, 2010 | ||
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Lovely to hear from you Mike and so pleased for you. You deserve every happiness that comes your way. Take care. Love Poppie x |
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Helli
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| February 27, 2010 | ||
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I'm really glad you have found that someone special. Be happy and enjoy your new life. There is life after devastation, you're proof of that. Helli |
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luckyfist
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| February 27, 2010 | ||
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Great news Mike. You're both top wiki people and I hope it keeps going from strength to strength. All the best mate. Tony |
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harrietbaby
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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Lovely inspiring blog Mike,it just goes to show there is life after a relationship breaks down, even when we feel we will never recover. The last three years have seen you experience many difficult situations both personally and professionally, situations completely out of your control. Despite everything you continue to be a fantastic Dad, Son, Brother and friend to many. The future is very, very bright, is that the end of the tunnel I can see? Onwards and upwards... H xx |
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bettertimes
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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err think i have just lost my comment hehe I am pleased you have found such a lovely person - thou would have to be a wiki one - we are the best hehe. We all have a lot to thank wiki for. Best of luck for the future which i am sure will be a happy one. Big hug to you both xx |
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Dadsrus
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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Blow me down Mike, Who would have thought it, someone loves you  , and you can believe in yourself again, and someone from WIKI too . You gave out so much to so many of us and we all love you for it - it is great to see you writing about yourself. I know what it is like to see better times ahead and wish you all the best and every happiness. In Lancaster on yonder moor There lived a man whose life was poor, At times the place seemed very dark I thought he might go live in the park, But sunshine comes when it may just as night follows day Look forward to another do Grateful when there's no more poo When happiness is back to stay on you go - seize the day Dadsrus  |
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rosiegirl
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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Hiya Mike It was great to see you happy again and I'm very pleased you have found such a lovely lady, my best wishes to you both . And yes I sure do agree with you ... even though it can feel like the absolute worst time in the world, things do get better in time...just need a little patience and good mates around xx |
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Curiousmiss
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| February 28, 2010 | ||
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I knew that someone like you would not be alone forever. You are just too much of a gem for some lucky lady to pass up! I am so pleased. You deserve nothing less! best wishes Curious Miss xxx |
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