When will the misery end - thought I was getting stronger but last couple of days have been so bad. Life throws problems all the time. When will I get a break and something good happen to me ? People don't want to talk to me anymore - they just say its time you told the kids. I don't know what to tell them - mummy is a cheating whore (I think not). I need to be stronger in myself before I can face the kids. My mum rings and I pretend everything is fine. She sends flowers for my wife's birthday. The daughter she never had. My mum has manic depression and lives 4 hours away and again

Hi Was chatting to Young Again last night and as I'm at the beginning of the nightmare thought it would be usedful to try this. Background - married 16 years. 13 yr old daughter (autistic) and 9 year old son. I have a good job - wife worked until Dec 10 and hasn't worked since. On Jan 7 I found a christmas card from my wifes lover. For several days she said she wanted to save the marriage and then after seeing a friend a few days later decided she wanted to leave me. I became depressed - got anti depressents and since then have been in work, off work, in work - difficult to