I was in an upbeat mood this morning. I had been out the night before with a girlfriend We went out for drinks and dinner and it was really nice. I drove my daughter to her part time job and when I got home, I chatted with some wikiangels. We shared a laugh, listened to some great music and then decided that I had procrastinated enough and needed to get the housework done. Not thinking, I put on a random CD that I had made ages ago and then started the dusting. About 10 minutes into the playlist, the song "Stay Gold" by Stevie Wonder started to play and as soon as I heard the first few

These are the exact words my stbx said to me over the phone today. I haven't heard from him in nearly four months. I needed to talk to him about our finances as he has been dragging his feet. When I questioned him about the affair, he told me that he didn't have any affairs and that he didn't remember sending any texts. When I began to remind him of his texts and the number of times he rang OW he denied, denied, denied. He went on to say that IF he had sent any texts that they were just flirting and nothing happened. When I read them out to him he said "Did I write those?" I don't

Yesterday, while cleaning out the garage, I stumbled across a silver cigarette lighter. My stbx smoked and spent countless hours outside in the backyard almost certainly thinking about his conquests. It had been inscribed and dated. I had not given this to him so it had to have been a present from one of 'them' (not really the word I wanted to use). To make things worse I also discovered an empty CD cover (love songs). He never went shopping or bought CDs - EVER! I could only conclude that these were gifts from his affairs. I felt the devastation all over again but I was also very