So another week has trundled by and I'm feeling remarkably good. On Friday, my wife went to her counselling session, and my did it help. Er...no! Changed absolutely nothing. I know it was only one session but I was prepared for either a good or bad outcome and I now feel a sense of calm acceptance that it's now over. I've said that I'll take a couple of weeks to get myself organised and then I'll move on. Where too, I'm not quite sure, but one thing's for sure, I'll be making a LOT of time for me and be making the very best of the time I get to spend with the

As this is my first blog entry, I thought I'd start with a little summary of my current situation: I'm still with my wife ("with" in the broadest possible sense) but she has declared that she is no longer attracted to me and essentially wants a trial separation. That's pretty much the crux of it. I've been feeling a bit low this week, after a relatively positive one last week, which coincided with me joining wikivorce (lots of positive vibes about). I'm not totally sure why, but it might be something to do with my heart being ripped out and fed to me for dinner!! My wife has now