I am half alive after my wife left me for another man. Recovery has been ever so slow and living life has been ever so hard. Just this week my family decided to pull out the life support of my father(another blow to my ailing heart). Sometimes i feel like it is me who needs to rest. i am have always told my wife to love the good and the bad in life. Now that i am feeling the lowest of the bad that can happen to someone, i am starting to feel that this would actually damage me. i told the ex about my situation and she emailed me back telling me that i have her as a friend. what she does not

most of my life i have been thrown to unchartered territories full of uncertainties. now i am once again in the same situation and somehow i feel deep inside me that i will get through this. i always tell my wife "Learn to love the good and the bad in any situation as it is part of being human". Now it is time for me to live what i have been preaching. For the first few days since she left, i was flooded with emotions and perspective seems to be thrown down the drain. Two months onwards, i am getting to accept it and that there's nothing i can do to change it. My wife did what she thought to