the end is in sight

On Monday i signed the final papers for the divorce,had to confirm the birth lines for dd,that the marriage lines were for us and finally the minute of agreement.5 minutes of my time and thats it

in 2 weeks time[or there abouts]i will be divorced but,the courts keep the papers for another 2 weeks in case either of us appeal the divorce. My heart sank at this piece of news as my stbx has defended the divorce all the way,in everyway,and then 2 weeks before the proof hearing finally accepts things.

He finally admits he doesnt want contact with dd and basically wants nothing to do with her,i knew this 27 months ago but,it was his right to take me to court and he did.

I know hes getting married again asap as his new wife to be wants to come and live in this country. Then i was accused of spoiling his wedding as they need to put it of to another date as the divorce wont be through in time,and its all my fault,silly man could have been divorced a year ago if he hadnt started playing silly beggars

Now dd and i have a choice to make.........to move back to scotland for good or to stay here either way that choice doesnt have to be made until the summer as if we decided to move i wouldnt take her out of school until the summer

So finally the end is in sight and i thank all the people on here for their time and patience

thank you

xx