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Jan 27
2008
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This weekendPosted by andy100 in accepting its over |
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Here we go. I am sitting in my mums dining room (where I am currently living - temporarily I must add). I am absolutely knackered after a mad weekend of surfing yesterday followed by a long bike ride and car washing and ironing today. My STBX asked me for a divorce on the 12th December. I moved out on the 22nd at her request "before I hate you" and after being handed a divorce petition (unreasonable behaviour) that was full of poison and vitriol. I am currently awaiting our first mediation session on the 14th February (ironic, perhaps?). I am still waiting for that phone call where she is going to say it was all a terrible mistake & she wants me to move back into our home. The other half of me says look to the future - there is no going back & you have the rest of your life to look forward to. After sharing 17 years of love, intimacy, fun and a shared goal in life how can someone just decide that they dont want that anymore? And how can she not talk to me if she changed her mind about what she wanted - we have always been a pertnership & shared our dreams & ambitions. I did have one earm moment yesterday - a text from my stepson. I am finding it so hard to try & undersatnd - maybe I need to accept that I never will.
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davej1808
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| January 27, 2008 | ||
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Hi Andy, Everyone here knows how tough it is what you are going through. There will be good and bad days, Mine are mostly bad but I do believe that soon I will start to get a few more good ones and I am sure you will to. Hang on in there and try to stay positive. Dave |
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broken1
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| January 28, 2008 | ||
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You like myself may never understand why they have done what they done and sometimes it might be better that way, but life go's on as they say so look after yourself and things will get better with time I promise. | |
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townie
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| January 28, 2008 | ||
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with acceptance comes moving on I think.I too spent many days and nights trying to understand reasons,and have now come to the conclusion that it is pointless and it best not to dwell on the past.Things will get better and eventually you will have more good days than bad, better that than bad days in the relationship . | |
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