i've ended up with a referral to a consultant shrink cos of a weekend of pent up depression. GP wanted to give me a fortnight off when i saw him last week but i explained i prefered being at work. it's just the driving home which is so bleak. i've started opening up more to my mum but don't want to worry her. i'm just finding sharing the living space with my x2b so stressful. i found out today that she's made plans to move into a brand new house in two weeks time. i was

Hi, My 1st divorce was 10 years ago and I have a son age 12 from that marriage. I had been with my first wife since we were schoolkids of 14. 3years after divorce I met my Xtb she & I had had a crush on each other as kids and the 1st few months were amazing. We felt so right together,although I was still hurting from the 1st divorce, still smoking grass and drinking too much. BUT i felt right at home with her. I wanted to be with her. We got married in 2005. Xtb had also had a son a year older than mine. Although I noticed (developmentally) he was much more clingy & introverted than my