Hi scottishlady and thanks for your kind words funny though the only thing I find difficult to come to terms with is my wife still lives with me, that low life lives but a few meters away and I have to look at it every time I walk out of my door. Ahhh

I’m a stubborn determined person when I want to be typical Taurean I suppose I am a survivor I will survive. I will pick myself up dust myself down and start doing some of the things that tend to be put on the back burner when you have responsibilities and a family to look after. Thanks again.

I never in my wildest dreams thought that I would be sat here reading a divorce forum or even writing one of these Blog things whilst suffering all kinds of emotions and this constant indescribable hurt.

Let me explain My wife and I had been married for 20 years and I’m not ashamed to admit I loved her to bits and she new it, I have always been proud of her and my children (2 daughters one aged 25 living with her husband to be and my 17 year old daughter living at home. I had until this point always trusted my wife implicitly yes we had problems don’t we all but nothing prepared me for what