I took-off from London Heathrow on a flight to Geneva with my girlfriend by my side, taking my life in a new and totally unplanned direction.

In many ways it feels that my life has been ripped from me. In the last month I have lost my job through redundancy, lost the car that came with the job, been thrown out of my house, lost the love of my wife and been separated from my son.

My life was good. No - it was great, but now everything is out of control, like an old house ripped off its foundations by a tornado and flung into the

Today my wife confronted me over a relationship I have started with another woman. She found out when a friend phoned to say they had seen me and my wife together in Brighton. However, it wasn't my wife - it was my mistress!

She went ballistic (understandably) and threw me out of the house there and then, taking from me my house keys for good measure. My brother came round and drove me round to sleep the night at his