My wife has an affair but I can't get angry at her.Why not ? All I feel is worthless, what did I do that drove her to do this I wish she would tell me but all she say's is ''it's me you have done nothing wrong''.Well sorry but I must of have or why did you do it? I just feel worthless and a total failure.Its so hard to carry on when you love someone so much and they love someone else. Do these people who hit on married people realise the hurt they generate. They should all be named on here or some other site and publicly

I have been married for 2 ½ years and my wife has had an affair for 4 months and has told me she doesn’t love me or feel any passion for me anymore, which hurts like mad, I still love her despite what she has done. She wants a 50/50 split of everything but when we met we both had our own house’s, She sold hers and the profit she got she used all of it to pay off her debts then moved into my house. I earn about 4 times her salary and have always made sure she had whatever she wanted along with my 15 year old step son. Before I came along they never had holidays etc and now we have sorry had

I am in the process of divorcing my wife but she is running up large debts on HER credit cards. Who will be responsible for these her or us