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Dec 13
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How long before the pain goes awayPosted by AJB0492 in moving on, accepting its over |
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Merry Christmas seperated from her indoors 4 weeks now I know that there is no going back as she is not interested. So time to pick up the pieces and start again but at the moment still feeling down. Christmas just around the corner and I miss my young son.
I know that I can get over this but just wondering how long it will take me. What a wonderful Christmas sat alone in an empty house just great.
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Vail
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| December 14, 2007 | ||
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AJB, Being down is part of life. Without downs there would be no 'ups'. The trick is to see that it is a cycle and not a downward slope. Things shall get better, believe me. |
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loobyloo
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| December 15, 2007 | ||
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youll be ok we all in or been in same boat... i left my x2b 6 months ago i left HIM but every day i get a wave of regret and then it passes..... life has to go on but it is hard try to stay focused on the future you have your son and a whole big world out there (not all women are b.....s as not all men are b......s happy christmas love loobs x |
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ChrisM
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| December 16, 2007 | ||
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4 weeks is a very short time. I would say that in a year you may be able to pick up the pieces. Now is a time for survival and laying the foundation stones for the future and looking after yourself (Survival) During this time just look after yourself. Eat well and be kind to your needs. My sister (who is also divorced and has been on her own for years) told me that xmas is only one day and its just another day in the year. She is right. Last year I just had a ready meal (marks and sparx so was special lol). This year will difo in that I have friends both far and wide. Concentrate also on planning your divorce and forget xmas for now. Its for kids anyway and we are conditioned to being with families at xmas. There are loads and loads of single people in the same state as us. You are part of a truly massive community. Hope you have a good time but if you dont you will next time or the next. Be good. Chris. |
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j2u
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| December 19, 2007 | ||
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Hi AJB0492, Sounds like you need to throw a festive party in your 'home-alone' home and soon. As well as start thinking about all of the positives, and there are many, no babysitting fees, no nagging, watch what YOU want on the tv, you can do exactly as you wish. So while you are busy, don't forget to write that letter to Santa containing your wish list for your new partner! You have had, and have been, an Ex before and will probably be again; you will always be a parent, sometimes a great one, sometimes not so good. BUT life is also about fun so go get some! Merry Christmas and Lots of love for you in 2008 J2U |
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