Confused and desperate to be in control!

Posted by taylr14 in dating, anger hate revenge

So here am I a 6 months after he left. I still hurt but I don't think of him every day - I do find myself thinking of her though - and the anger I feel otwads her scares me. What did she think she was doing taking a friends husband! I don't even want him back though - so why these feelings and thoughts. I wonder if it is because I know she is pulling the strings!

He is back play ing games again - from last weeks - contact me and I'll do you for harrassment to this weeks text - "Can I have Abi on Thrusday evening for test, if you drop her of and collect her - or can I have her to stay Friday if you collect on Saturday. Please"

So all nice and polite - I reply that I can do Thursday and get a Thanks!

This is the man who is going bankrupt so that he has a 50:50 split! Well 50:50 of not a lot isn't a lot! But he has taken so much money out of our company as a directors loan that there isn't enough to pay the taxes. ANd his response - your problem you are the majority share holder!

Nasty - would like to go to mediation but he will just lie or bury his head in the sand. Just want to get on with my life with out him.

And now the real SOAP OPERA. Met a fantastic new man - but wait for it - his sister is dating my stb ex's brother!! Far too close for compfort - but I really like him... really, really like him.

We didn't realise the connection until we were talking about Christmas with his mother. After all Sarah and Andrew are very common names.

As you can tell my ex's family were not very communicative!

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Fat Boy Getting Slimmer said:

November 27, 2007
		Look on the bright side - it sounds like it will save on the introductions. Oh! of course you already know my STBX. Sorry I can' say too much else that would help but it sounds good that you have met someone you can really like again.

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moonstar04 said:

November 28, 2007
		tee hee have to laugh because I have a similar problem if you want to call it a problem that is as I call it a bonus. My ex's cousin and I are hitting it off big time at the moment and should it develop then who knows what the family will think xx All I can say is go for it, if you have a spark and chemistry it is worth all the grief for all the happiness you will gain. Life goes on and they will get over it. As the previous post says you will not need much introduction

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Pickle said:

November 28, 2007
		If the spark is there taylr14 go for it ... life's too short!

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SK.Callum said:

November 28, 2007
		On thoughts of this heres another for anyone whose on the 2nd time around :-) The second time I searched the whole world over, All my life I dreamed of you; Of someone who would share my life, Now my dreams have all come true. I never gave up hoping, That one day you'd be found; And love would be much sweeter, The second time around. Now I've put my hand in yours, And we've joined heart to heart; I give my soul, my love to you, As we make a brand new start. Now my search is over, For I know that I have found; Someone to share my life, my love, The second time around.