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May 13
2009
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my great (not) STBX has now informed me that I won't be able to see the kids as they are off on holiday, so much for the hardship they have.
next weekend they are busy and then away for two weekends, so nearly a month before I can see them again, I will still keep phoning but that is becoming more and more difficult as they are sometimes not there, or busy or she is there but the kids are out. The promise of them being there later or they will call me always seems to not happen.
Anyway June the 3rd and the first part is complete, she is making no in roads to sort the finances out, time to apply some pressure I think? But how to do that without it effecting the kids is difficult as I know this is the tool that she will use to get her way? Any ideas out there?
Right I'm off for some breakfast have been in work for over an hour already and have the munchies
You all take care
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rasher
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| May 13, 2009 | ||
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Gareth Now you are out of the house I think you will find she tries to systematically undermine your contact. I would offer her a mediation appointment to formulate a parenting plan for the kids and would go straight for a contact order via the courts if she doesnt respond. Once she has establised a pattern of you not getting to see your kids she will be able to demonstrate you arent part of their lives. She has no business arranging things so the kids cant see you. Dont let her mess with this - she might not want to be married to you but she cant stop you being their father. Trying to sabotage their relationship is wrong. They are still a bit too young to fight their own corner so do it for them. Best wishes Rasher |
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gareth67
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| May 14, 2009 | ||
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Hi Rasher, Thanks for that. It's going from bad to worse, haven't been able to speak to the kids for 48 hours as now neither the mobile or land line are being picked up? Ho hum and he is me thinking that we can both be adult about things  |
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