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May 03
2009
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Forgive me wiki friends .....Posted by gareth67 in moving on, children, attending court |
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It's been a long time away and I haven't called, I have'nt wrote, where have I been, what have I done, why am I back????????
Well not sure where I really start so I will go back to the end of the year.
Every thing was going bad in the land of divorce, the light was shining but not very bright for me. The kids and I are great and this is still so but the wicked which was up to her own, strange and dark tricks.
Friends were being told not to keep me as a friend on facebook, communications were difficult, life was going on but not as we know it.
So Xmas and New Year were dark, cold and particualy painful (as I'm sure a lot of you know) so Jan comes and I find some where that I can move out to, not close to the kids but managable and closer to work so cutting on costs, then happy birthday to me, I get the divorce papers, at least it was something from her, better than the last 2 years, lol.
The new cold war starts again with her making sure that the kids can not always come to the phone, or they are out, or they are in bed, or you will have to call back later, etc etc
Decide that it is never going to stop me and the kids, have only missed speaking to the once in the last 3 months and have seen them every weekend
So, divorce is nearly here 3rd June, and then it will be over ..... not, no finances have been sorted, at the moment I'm paying for the house, the kids, my rent and living, must get it sorted.
Now she wants me to pay the cost, even after she stole money out of the joint account that was there for this (have responded to the court to tell them that, lets see what they do next, probable still make me pay?
Trying to be as possitive as I can, work is still manic but good, try to now get back out and catch up with friends that have been put off due to the STBX and her ways, have been away with the kids for a short break and have planned a week in the school hols (2nd one as book the first and the witch then would not let me take them lost £800 on that one) so cross fingers she won't do it again
So this is just a brief catch up for anyone that wants to read about what has happened, but I think I will be back on here again, never say never
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Angel557
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| May 03, 2009 | ||
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Hi Garth Hopefully the finances will be resolved quickly and it won't be a long drawn out process. Thanks for letting us know how you are getting on we always liek to see how the older memebers are getting on . |
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biffy
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| May 03, 2009 | ||
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Hello Gareth nice to meet you, just thought I would say well done to you for the way you are sounding (positive), you are going through so much just now but very glad you are getting access and have had a break with your children and are looking forward to another. So sorry that she has been horrid to you and is making you lose money, she must have such a guilty conscience surely? Well you keep up the good work loving your kids and living a happy life for yourself and them, take care, Biffy xxxx | |
gareth67
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| May 03, 2009 | ||
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Hi Angel, Hope you are keeping well. How are the old chatter buddies doing? Ruby, Julian, happy at last, bertie, avebabe, mike. forgot how many other I use to chat to on here |
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rubytuesday
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| May 03, 2009 | ||
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Hey gareth! great to hear from you again.Hope you get the finances sorted soon and with not too much hassle. Fingers crossed you and the kids get away on your hols this year - you deserve it. keep in touch, Ruby xx | |
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