This is a long one..... The reality is no matter how bad you feel in most cases they won't suffer as much as you. In most cases they will have made an improvement in their lives and by making that jump suspect they are empowered to get through any initial difficulties they will face. Together. They have a journey planned and they’re going. Ciao baby. They are unlikely to pay for or recognise the pain they have put you through. No amount of quantum physics or prayers and promises to your God will change that. It is doubtful that anyone, your once mutual friends, their family

Worth a listen. They did this then broke up.. So the weekend I had the girls which was good. What wasn't was that between Thursday evening and this morning I met four people whose marriages had failed. All of them had been told this line or a variation on it. The line is - "I don't love you anymore there is no one else" And each case there was someone else. So for you who are new to this nightmare and you get fed this line the likleyhood is the person you love who said this to you is screwing someone else behind your back. Sorry. This really really upset me because I'm sick of

Top tune, up there with Alison and Olivers Army...

So the crash came. Again. Predictably. I couldn't sleep, every time I closed my eyes very dark alternate futures were being played out, the kids loving their new step-dad, her happy more than she was with me, the girls being taken away, her winning the lottery, me getting cancer (I must give up smoking) and a lot worse besides....this went on throughout the night.

I eventually got up exhausted I couldn't bring myself to go to work and found myself muttering conversations that hadn't happened and would never happen in solitude between shouting