Spare parts And broken hearts Keep the world turnin around I watched Papillion on Friday night – McQueen and Hoffman. I forgot how good it was. One man accepting his lot the other driven to escape. We are only prisoners if we chose to stay in the jails we have built for ourselves to quote Brother Hawaythelads…and he is right…. My mobilisation letter actually went to the FMH which was weird but I’ve got it. Now my next year is planned going forward. Two years ago this situation could not be more unimaginable, happy, married, loved (maybe) and in love but here I am and I don’t need to

A number of blogs recently are appearing with a common thread. The thread covers a number of things, stuff like 'not telling the kids the whole picture'....'being amicable until the divorce is finalised' and not telling mutual friends he/she has done a bunk. Then the bloggers are routinly being shafted by their ex's. For those who think that thier other half is going to be decent or you think you'll get that mid-night text saying 'come back baby I was wrong'. It ain't coming. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but it ain't. The longer you wait the more they get away with it. I also know

This is a long one..... The reality is no matter how bad you feel in most cases they won't suffer as much as you. In most cases they will have made an improvement in their lives and by making that jump suspect they are empowered to get through any initial difficulties they will face. Together. They have a journey planned and they’re going. Ciao baby. They are unlikely to pay for or recognise the pain they have put you through. No amount of quantum physics or prayers and promises to your God will change that. It is doubtful that anyone, your once mutual friends, their family