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Nov 16
2007
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So this evening I find out if my wife has discussed couples counselling and if it is something that she will try. I am immensely worried about this decision because I have raised the subject for 13 months and now it is a decision that my wife will make after discussing it with her counselor.
This is quite hard to accept. To me it is a no brainer. You try counselling to see if it will make separation easier, you try it to see if it will repair the relationship. Either way it makes it easier.
But I am not involved in the decision. And I have been dreading the wait.
Anyhow, wife came back later than planned and I had a commitment to help a friend and now I am home nothing is said about any decision. Oh well, nothing changes! and my wife dictates the pace. An early night beckons I think.
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mike62
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| November 17, 2007 | ||
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FBGS, sometimes there is a great deal of unspoken thinking going on. She may not want to talk right now, maybe because she hasn't made her decision, maybe because she HAS made her decision. As you say, it is at her pace, and you are reliant on a complete stranger to influence and determine the outcome of the rest of your life. Frustrating, but it needs time. Patience is a virtue  Give her the time and space to decide what it is that she wants, difficult as it is. but even if the outcome is not as you expect or want, never say never. Hope it goes as you hope, Mike |
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