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Oct 30
2007
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Not really looking forward to it. It's been two weeks now and I was hoping for some improvement in the general climate between us.
What I have realised is that by trying to get my wife to talk about us it is causinga dditional stress. And I mean real stress. I think she has enough stress already. So by me trying to sort us out is actually pushing us down.
Well that's my current view. The reason I think this is that when she came back from a few days away with our kids when we talked you could see the flight syndrome kicking in. She was uncomfortable. She said she was getting tightness across her chest and breathing was harder. I am no expert but this sounded like a panic attack.
Perhaps I should just keep to myself for a few weeks, expect no serious conversation, give her time to compose herself and just try and take some of the load off us both.
After all there is no rush.
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