Oh well S*** happens

Posted by LittleNix in positive thinking, planning my new life, moving on, being single

I have been seperated for 3 weeks today (26/10) and to be totally honest apart from the general stress of seperating, I really don't miss him that much. He left me for a friend but she honestly is one of the ugliest, most unfortunate trolls you would ever have the misfortune to meet. That irks me more than anything. I can only assume that he felt sorry for the miserable walrus but who knows and who cares. I am still young enough I can start again and I fully intend to!

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MoltenJules said:

October 26, 2007
		Well I am glad that you have such a positive attitude. I hope it continues. I can see why picking an ugly bird is not too good for your self esteem. Just look at it that its his poor choice. Jules

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mike62 said:

October 26, 2007
		Now don't be beating around the bush Nic, tell us how it really is! Seriously though, it's good that you can be so positive, in the face of adversity - separation takes it's emotional toll on us eventually and we climb aboard the delight and despair rollercoaster of emotion, swinging wildly between the two extremes. You have to be an iron maiden, with skin as thick as a rhino to be unaffected by what has happened. Be kind to yourself, you have had a major trauma, and can sometimes think that you are fine and unaffected, then something really silly will set you off. An old picture of happier times, an odd sock under the bed.......Whatever it might be, it suddenly plunges you to the depths of despair. I found the blogs on here to be a great way of bundling up my baggage and leaving it up here, for all to see. When people comment too, that is a real bonus, as there are so many like minded people here, willing to be supportive and give you a lift when it all seems like sh*te. Take care and keep getting it all out in the open. Helps me enormously. Mike