Well...I haven't posted a blog entry in about a week, and so much has changed.

The e-mail in my previous blog simply merited a polite, "I got your e-mail - thank you." Guess it didn't quite have the effect I was hoping for. Can't say I didn't try.

We have since had further conversations about foreclosure on the house and finalizing things. I met with an attorney again to discuss options. I left feeling very good about my situation if things have to go to court.

The latest good news was that I received a job offer for a great new career in Las Vegas. After some pleasant chats and SMS

I can't say for sure what my intentions are. As it becomes more and more clear to me that my wife has decided that we will not be married in the future, I have resorted to the following e-mail. Part of my intention is to make her think about what we have, while part of it is to embed notes for comparison into her subconsious. Will her new partner be all of these things that she knows to be true?

 

Just read please. We don't need to discuss.

Pros? (just to name a few)

We like the same music.

We like the same movies.

We like the same foods.

We have identical religious views.

We

she called again at lunch and left a pathetic message about me ignoring her. so i broke down and called her back. when i did, the whole conversation was, "what's going on?" "nothing - working" "oh..ok...was just checking in" "ok" "did you want to say something?" "what do you want me to say? you made it clear we had nothing else to discuss" then her office phone rang and she had to go.
All that for nothing. What a stupid situation!