I glanced at a couple of blogs today from people saying they were leaving Wiki because they felt it was hindering their recovery. I totally appreciate their point of view, but it made me think about why I'm still here (occasionally, I admit) and for me, it's a little different.

Whilst I certainly don't consider myself an expert on divorce - compared to most, mine was relatively easy - my experience here has left me wanting to try and help others going through the same emotional nightmare. And that's what I think this site is about - give & take, basically. When I was in the darkest depths, I

I hope you don't get fed up with these optimistic blogs!

It's just such a novelty to be feeling good after all these months, I hope it gives those of you going through a rough time something to hope for...

 After a wonderful, boozy night with my mum on Friday I was prepared for a Hangover Saturday. You know - sofa, chick-flicks & comfort food with paracetamol on the side - but then I realised I had to walk into town for my prescription. The horror! Washed out, baggy-eyed and can't-be-bothered-to-wash hair. Still, it was a lovely day so I donned my biggest sunglasses (no make-up), changed my

I DID IT!

Apologies in advance for being drunk & therefore possibly clumsy-fingered... but in my defence I've just got home from a posh meal (with lots of champagne) with my mum in celebration of my DIVORCE! Yes, it's finally over and I'm free at last :)

I started a blog last week about this, but it got a bit emotional so I decided to edit and later delete it - because it's not about past regrets, it's about NOW and the FUTURE... which is so bright I gotta wear shades! I am SO HAPPY!!! Never thought losing all my savings & starting over financially would feel so good, but it's a small price to