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Feb 22
2009
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Day by DayPosted by David2109 in the good times, feeling sad and alone, feeling down |
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I get sad when I think of the future, which is strange because it's unknown and may actually be better than the past life I've lived. I suspect the best way of getting through this is to just take day-by-day, and let the future only ever be the next hour of your life.
I miss her today, just to hold her and tell her I love her - she's the only person who truly could make me feel worthwhile. I hope there's someone special in that 'future' of mine.
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siriusB
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| February 22, 2009 | ||
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Hi David, The first person you need to start seeing as special is you. It's so hard when we have invested a great chunk of our life with someone to try and 'be' ourselves without them. But try to remember you were 'you' before you met her. And you will be you again. Take each moment at a time and you will make it through this - it's not easy - but it is do-able! Hx |
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Claymic78
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| February 22, 2009 | ||
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David that was a big struggle for me..looking ahead and seeing nothing but a black hole. You cant expect to see anything rosy in the future - not while going through all the hurt and pain. its the now that you need to think about - the future will take care of itself. You seem to me like a very nice and sensitive guy. Love yourself for the time being, and the kids. get back the David that might have been put in the shadow for a while... good things will happen.... just for now its a day to day survival mode! take care claudette x |
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smurfy1973
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| February 22, 2009 | ||
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I'm only at the beginning of divorce hell and it is hard to see a good future; it is terrifying. We have to struggle sometimes minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day. Hopefully we will see the light at the end of this dark tunnel in the future. For now we have to look after ourselves. Baby steps hun.... x |
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goingforward
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| February 22, 2009 | ||
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Hello David, Dont look too far ahead- its like looking back into the past - it does your head in. You can only look a day or week at a time. Plan little things to look forward to, its small steps. Your future could be wonderful, none of us know what will happen because at the moment we are in a bad place. But, you can be whatever you want to be but that change is a slow process. Today someone said "we spend so long looking longingly at the closed door that we don't see the new door that has opened". That is your future and you will step through it. I too miss being hugged and loved - theres a massive hole in my life. Take a virtual hug from me, not the same, but there are people who care. Take care of yourself and face the new week with strength love GF x |
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tiffany
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| February 23, 2009 | ||
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I feel exactly the same. People say I should love myself before anyone else will but after all the pain I need someone to love me warts and all- it's a vicious circle! I nevertheless believe in fate and so many people recover from divorce, we have to beleive we will too. Sending a hug x | |
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