been a while but need to shift stuff off my chest ... here goes..

 job ... going well so much that i have made an offer on a house and it has been accepted... this will be my first house in my name only and looking forward to it so much

 social life ... going well new friends ..new hobbies  and really active so much so that i dont now how i fit it all in

my daughters.. still lovley and a joy to be around, my rock and my focus in everything i do

relationships .. met a really special lady but im still taking baby steps with this

me.. feel ok but still get lonley even though im busy and have loads

so far this journey ive been on since my marriage break up has been tough emotionally ... my head has moved on but it will take time for my heart to make the same jump.

one thing that has helped me is the love and support of some really goods friends on here and in my personnel life ... anyhow one of my mates sent me this today and i thought i would share it ...

in the end we only regret the chances we didnt take

the relationships we were scared to have and the decisions we waited too long to make

 there comes a time in your life when you realise who matters, who doesnt, who never did and who

leading up to my break up i discovered that my stbx had been socialising with a friend from work ... no worries on this at first but when it happened on a regular basis i asked if there was anything more going on she denined this of course but i had a nagging feeling inside my gut this lead to the situation  blowing up and my stbx declared  she didnt love me anymore and left the next day.....

moving on 6 months i have now discovered that she is seeing him so my gut feelings and instinct were proved to be correct 

this gives me closure as i thought i was going mad and seeing signs that just