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Oct 05
2007

Bringing It Home....

Posted by scottishlady in financial disclosure form E, financial arrangements

Today I had a valuation done on our house..... as part of the 'financial disclosure' my solicitor asked for.....

The very nice lady from the estate agent walked around 'our' house, taking measurements.... saying "what a lovely house this is"... "this house will sell without a problem"........ usual stuff they say I imagine....

I didn't really 'feel' anything.............

She gave me the price that they would 'put it on the market for'..... (better than I expected)....

I didn't feel sad, angry, any of the emotions that one might expect.... considering I am being 'forced' to move out of 'our' home of 20 years.... didn't think much about it at all to be honest...

I wonder what that says about 'my state of mind'..... lol, I know in my blog last night I said my emotions had settled down... but does this mean that they are actually 'dead'??????

I feel that I should be feeling something about all of this... after all, I have no idea where I am going to live.... had a conversation with my daughter this evening about it... and she doesn't seem quite against moving to Scotland as she did.... I really don't want to live here anymore (Newcastle)....

Maybe tomorrow I shall 'feel' a little more about it.......



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sexysadie said:

October 06, 2007
I think that sometimes you just do have to go emotionally dead for a bit. I certainly do. It passes, and though it can be a bit worrying (am I always going to be this unfeeling, etc.) it gives you a respite from the turmoil. I am sure it will pass, just like everything else.

Sadie

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scottishlady said:

October 06, 2007
thanks sadie....
yes, I thought that an hour or two ago.... although my emotions seem to be settled/'dead' at the moment...I'm quite sure it won't be too long before something happens to wake them up!!!!...I shall just 'enjoy' the settled state while it lasts... you're right - it does give one 'a bit of a rest'

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