Well, my Decree Nisi just came through, I've got the house transferred into my sole name, got away without sharing any of the equity with him, got 2 payrises in the last 3 months and for the first time in 15 years have got spare money at the end of the month.

Problem is, now there are no battles to fight and no uncertainties left, I just feel empty. I'm sitting here on my own, one child in bed and the other in his room on his Playstation, and I'm worried now that I'll get depressed or give up on things.

I have these moments of desolation. They started about a month ago and are still popping

I'm "working from home" today. My boss has been amazingly understanding and supportive since my marriage broke up. When I had to phone work to say that my husband had left because I found out he was having an affair, my boss called him some very bad names and has been brilliant ever since.

We had been married for 21 years and I had it in my head that we were together forever. Things hadn't always been perfect but we worked things through. He'd been acting like an arse on and off for about a year, but I didn't think he was having an affair. I just thought he was going through one of his