Today 11th June 2008

 

Me  V  The ex

 CSA Appeal

As some of you know my ex is self employed and has been assessed on a low wage, i knew all along he was lying and that he was earning more than what his fake wages slips were stating.

CSA tunred my variation down Nov 2007 and said i had to go to appeal i thought ok i will do that was a little easier for me as i had proof , proof from his own Sworn form E , how unmarried couples get the proof i do not know.

Today in the appeal was myself and my dad , my out reach worker came for moral support , she waited in the waiting room whilst me and my dad went

Think tonight is harder for me then his actual wedding day last month.Tonight being his wedding party 7 miles down the road.None of his family are going he has no friends so what is this going to look like , are people going to believe what he says that i have turned the minds of his parents.If i have managed to do that i must have some power, all her family will be there no doudt having a bitch about me not that i care , but i do care for the fact i live so dam close to them.I know next month in court he is going to say you never let the kids come to my wedding party , where's the

so tomorrow is the day my ex gets married to that thing, do i wish him well not at all, hope he forgets his decree absolute hope it pours down on that beach.Am i bitter no angry ,angry at the way he has treated me and our children , angry the decree absolute was granted without my knowledge , angry we have a FH soon , angry he could forget his own children angry he plays games still dictates what sort of life the children can have as he picks and chooses when he wants to pay child support.In our whole marriage he paid for us to go on holiday once yet for her nothing is too much even down to