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Sep 20
2007
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.....................I WILL stop crying!!!!!!!
I am waiting for that day.......jeeeez.... just one whole day without bursting into tears at the most inappropriate times....
Went back to work on Monday after a weeks hols..... "how are you?".... that's it - away I go!!!!!
The strange thing is I am not a 'crying' sort of person.... and I usually pretty much 'just get on with it'..... this feeling is totally alien to me....
Walking around the supermarket the other day....there they were again.... walking down the frozen food aisle.... tears (jesus, where did that come from!!!!)
I don't like this divorce stuff much!!!!!
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sexysadie
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| September 20, 2007 | ||
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I have the same problem. Bleeding nuisance, but probably psychologically healthy. Sadie |
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Shelia
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| September 20, 2007 | ||
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Don't worry about the crying. I was like you, still cry but not as much. Beginning to realise what an intransigent, greedy, selfish, stupid, man I was married to. Better off without him whatever takes. Divorce is not nice, and I think mine will run and run. I must have been a right mug to marry him in the first place. I feel stupid and lost. Now I've started crying again so I'm off to bed! What we are going through is grief. Shelia |
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divwiki
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| September 21, 2007 | ||
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Yes, I'm with Sheila and Sadie. It's loss and it's healthy, just very uncomfortable. The dog was setting me off, looking up at me with big, brown eyes as if to say "where is she". It's a stage and it passes. And don't panic if it returns, it'll go. |
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fio
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| September 21, 2007 | ||
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Funny really - I haven't done the crying bit, well not much - once in tescos car park when it was raining so nobody could see and when I got hit by the lorry. I found it didn't really help like its supposed to, just makes your eyes all puffy and red. After the righteous indignation wore off reality checked in and I don't like this divorce stuff at all - its so scary and upsetting, and cant we just turn the clock back to when it was all OK? |
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sals44
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| September 21, 2007 | ||
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It's normal...your defences become weakened and anything can set you off.. But one day that little ding in your head goes off..the realisation that there is no going back and the only way is forward. But you will go back there..I feel lucky it took me only two months to start looking forward..now in month three..I trip backwards very occasionally...but it is less painfull. I'm not a cryer usually..very practical, perhaps a bit pig headed...but I have discovered having a good cry clears the head and you feel better. When you are alone..allow yourself a really good sob...really go for it...then you find those little tremours rise less often. I find the visit to the photo box is very good for self healing...I go there often it helps to clarify my feelings each time..but each visit becomes easier and easier. Actually just realised my daughter has been in it for three days..(looking)..trying to find a photo for a school project...perhaps this is setting off her emotions....why did I not think of that before????.. |
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