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Oct 09
2008
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I am a mess
Outwardly I am fine. I function well and put up an impressive front. I am not jumping for joy but I certainly look healthy calm and collected.
Inside I am not doing so well. I was so sure of myself a few weeks ago. I knew I had taken the right decision (to divorce) and I was just getting on, doing everything possible to move on.
I still believe it is the right decision. there is no way I can trust him again. And I will be in far less pain without him.
so why do i feel so empty inside
why am i such a mess?
Outwardly I am fine. I function well and put up an impressive front. I am not jumping for joy but I certainly look healthy calm and collected.
Inside I am not doing so well. I was so sure of myself a few weeks ago. I knew I had taken the right decision (to divorce) and I was just getting on, doing everything possible to move on.
I still believe it is the right decision. there is no way I can trust him again. And I will be in far less pain without him.
so why do i feel so empty inside
why am i such a mess?
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fade2gray
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Please don't feel this way. You know you have done the right thing and will start to feel better soon,,, I promise! Being single, as opposed to 'a couple' is very difficult and comes with its own set of problems but I can tell from your mail that you have the strength to cope, Thinking of you and do keep posting xxx |
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Poppie
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| October 09, 2008 | ||
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Rani, I think we all try to put on a front, I know I do, but inside we struggle. You are coping and have made the right decision. I could never trust my ex again and have had to deal with that, even 16 months on I think my life is on track but then I suddenly find I've slipped off and left struggling to get back on. We have to accept that this will happen and believe that one day the pain and loneliness we feel will gradually fade away. Thinking of you. Poppie xx |
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marriaa
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(((((rani)))))) even though you know it is right for you it does not hurt anyless.Getting the wheel in motion just brings the reality to the front,What you are feeling is very natural .You will get up and down days but you will get through it take care |
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