One Hell of a weekend

And when I say hell I mean hell

 Friday - had lunch with some pals - been in the diary for months. Came home and wife gone to pics with daughter (in a mood according to her). She comes home after me and says she's surprised to see me - thought I was meeting someone and was staying overnight - Where the bloody hell did that come from? And had I done so what's the problem - she's asking me for the divorce and she's the one with a boyfriend - anyway - a taste of what's to come.

Saturday - tells daughter she's popping out to get something for lunch - me in garden having not been spoken to since previous evening. She comes home and tells me to F*** off because I have not made daughter some lunch. (Had I done so I guess she'd have told me to f*** off for not waiting for her to return and for wasting her time and money. Turns nasty and then gradually she turns on daughter for some unknown reason

 Realise next day is last possible chance for daughter to see my sister and kids from Oz before they return. Family day planned but coincides with her mum's birthday. She clearly is festering that daughter is spending time with my family instead of hers. I get on really well with her family (not their fault and won't blame them for something they didn't do) and have spent practically every birthday and xmas for last 20 years with them. Still she refuses to talk to either of us. Atmosphere horrible - no Vicious

Sunday. She gets up, says nothing and leaves house with gym kit at 9.30. By time I arrive at meeting point with sister from Oz daughter's phone is ringing and receiving texts from bro in law - everyone scared they can't find her or contact her. After around an hour of embarressing phone calls to her mum - no-one knows where she is. Apparently she is 'near the edge' close to topping herself etc etc. Talk about  a cry for attention.

I get worried as is daughter. Texts to daughter from Bro in law (prat) saying the sooner mum & dad split up the better. What a w@nker! Point is - I'd die for divorce now but wanting to protect daughter from all this. What does he think he is achieving by doing that - twat!

Mum in law speaks to me for an hour later on (all whilst I am out with family!!!. 20 years of what a bastard I am comes down the phone. Sister in law has spoken to wife and she just needs time to 'sort herself out'. What's going on - she had the affair. She has a boyfriend. She wants divorce. She is dumping me!!!!!  I am confused.

Get home put my arm round wife (why am I doing this -I want to strangle her) Go to bed and place hand on her shoulder - she takes hand - first physical contact in 6 months between us - at her request!!!

 Today - No words this morning. Daughter cold shouldered again. I call M in L again and let her give me another pasting for my last 20 years. Eventually I get my point over that 3 years ago I had all that - as untrue as it was then I just don't need it again after spending the last 3 years and 1000 sleepless nights being conned by her daughter's constant lie-ing. We end it well because I listen. I want a win win situation

 Tonight. She hugs daughter wants to cook me tea etc. No apology (She never did) I smile and we are back to normal

In meantime yesterday with my sis from Oz was a nightmare - I wish i could tell everyone.

This has been nothing short of a hoorible painful disaster. She wants to 'protect daughter' does she - not if she's got the hump she doesn't!!

One day I'll be rid of this self centred, selfish, nasty person I once fell in love with and breath a wonderful sigh of relief.

 How sad is this - how so very sad.