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Oct 04
2008
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So hard moving on!!!Posted by cindygirl in moving on, being single |
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I'm finding it so hard to move on with my life. Tonight i was looking forward to a night out with my best friend, she let me down just as i started getting ready, said she didn't feel well. How on earth do i get out to meet people & hopefully find someone new if i'm stuck in the house all the time? I realise i need more friends but i'm stuck. After spending 16 years with my ex I find i hardly know anyone, how sad is that? I hate weekends as everyone is out enjoying themselves & i have no kids to worry about, i should be out having fun!
Got to change my life somehow, any ideas much appreciated!
Cindy
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buxtonman
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Hello Cindygirl We are all in the same boat. Keep smiling if you can! Maybe somebody on WIKI is the person you are destined to meet! Come to the events and stay cool. Love will find you when you are ready  Andy |
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BiTTeR_AnD_TwIsTeD
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Hello cindygirl, I know it may seem like a cliche, but what are you interested in ? Are there no clubs or places for like minded individuals to meet ? Is there something you have always wanted to do, but were held back from doing ? At least if you have a common interest with someone 'breaking the ice' is that much easier. As buxtonman implies I think, you don't need to go out looking for someone,....just go out ! Good luck. |
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Poppie
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Cindy, Think of something that you have always wanted to do and then go out and give it a try. This weekend I have been to the theatre and to the cinema, I am also going swimming today. There are things you can do alone and you will find that being around other people helps and someone will always speak to you. I have also started dancing twice a week which I love and have always wanted to do. I don't know where you live cindy but pm me if you want and we can chat. Don't focus on meeting someone just go out and do things you enjoy, I believe in destiny and none of us know what the future holds. Poppie x |
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why
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Hi Cindygirl I know what you mean about having people to go out with, most of my friends are now married or living with someone, so even though I do go out with them as a couple or on their own there are occasions where I would love to go out, but there is no one to go with. So I take every opportunity that I can, even if I am having a bad day, I will still accept an invitation to go out, it doesn't matter where it is, or who with, I just go, there have been occassions when I really haven't wanted to and they have been some of the best nights out. Don't know where you live but if you are anywhere near Leicester give me a shout and I we could go for a night out. Keep smiling, things will get better. |
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cindygirl
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Thanks everyone, i'm in Lincolnshire if anyone lives nearby? I do love going out at night for a few drinks & a dance but found myself short of friends to go out with when i found myself single again. Ive spent too much time with ex & family. I have one very good friend that always went out with me but two of her sons have died this year, really sad & she isnt up to going at the minute, i dont blame her but i miss her coming out. I would love to go to Wikki events but London is too far for me & cash would be a problem for the journey. Actually ive had a good day today & feel so much better, maybe the anti-Ds are out my system but i take nothing now & i feel quite strong again. I'm just worried that being stuck indoors a lot will get me down again, thats when i start looking back lol I really feel i'm ready for a new life & future today, so i'm going to do my best to make one!! Cindy |
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Hi Cindygirl Glad you are feeling better today, god how awful for your friend, I can't imagine what that must be like. Just get out whenever you can and enjoy every minute. I haven't been out in the evening this weekend (went round to a friends on Friday night) and to be honest it was quite nice because I have been obsessed with having to go out. Got a busy weekend next weekend and I am not thinking beyond that to be honest, I am just going to look forward to that and after that will take care of itself, hopefully. Why |
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