She's Been and Gone and Done It!

My x2b told me she wasn't going to our joint meeting with the council today. i phoned them and asked if there was any point attending alone, not really so I cancelled it. Half an hour before it had been due she phoned again, is it still on? She told me I shouldn't have cancelled! I phoned and got it back and even gave her a lift there. She said she wanted us to pop into her solicitor's first - like you can just do that!what planet is she on these days? She also kept saying "now we have an agreement..." I counted 4 times that I told her we DON'T have an agreement: I have two proposals from her that I will consider with a solicitor, but throwing them at me does NOT constitute an agreement.

 She then gave me a piece of notepaper which she'd signed yesterday stating  that she relinquished all rights to our council flat in return for £15,000; this had been one of her proposals, along with "or £5,000 and whatever". She seems to have dropped the £5K one now! She seemed to think giving this paper to me made her dreams reality, like some sort of magical process server.

 Sitting in the council office and being told I would have to fill in a form to apply for housing brought home to me that I've now lost my wife, almost certainly my home and therefore also our dog due to housing problems - and she wants money out of me too; she seemed to think I should be grateful for this!

 When I showed that I wasn't she said " Oh look I've had enough(!) You find a solicitor and I'll see you in court." Then she asked for a lift home. I said that I felt we should only speak through solicitors in future. She agreed and for much of the evening someone kept 'phoning and hanging up, number withheld of course.

 There'll be life after all this mess of course, but it's just so sad from someone who was telling my mum only a few months ago "I don't know what I'd do without him".