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Sep 25
2008
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...... Three weeks to be exact! Three weeks with NO No.2 from my STBX! (mind you, I am touching wood as I type this lol) Previous record stood at 7 days....
Since a minor little blip of temper, spite and bile when I told him that I was goingto and then introduce girls to my BF, he has been almost 'normal'. Hurrah!
He has cut maintenance in half, but apart from that.... its been so so quiet. A little comment here or there, nothing to write a blog about, but it just DOESNT get to me anywhere near like it did before.... and its only taken a year.....
I actually stopped at a traffic light today (!) and looked at the blue sky, while all three of us were singing along to a song on the radio and felt so relaxed and happy. I have plenty to stress about - basically financially dire straits til I get the FH underway and a new job to find, BUT the difference it makes with him backing off is amazing.
Don't get me wrong - we are never going to be friends and I know, I still have loads more battles and a way to go, but we are in a different stage and it feels FINE.
Time does 'heal'.....
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moca
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| September 26, 2008 | ||
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Hi mrs  You have got gorgeous children and spending precious time with them. Your ex never know what he is losing. Even there might be some difficult situation, but you can open a door , the door leads you to freedom and happiness ! Also "Time" make your happiness mature to enjoy your life more ! moca xxx |
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