Last Chance?

July was a shit month. He was away for most of it, which gave me breathing space. Funny thing is i didn't miss him when he was away. Does that say something? Have spoken to him on 3 or 4 occassions and sent e-mails, but nothing changes, so decided to try again yesterday. I told him i sometimes felt like leaving and going it alone and he said he understood, but he still didn't know what he wanted. We spoke at length about everything and he admitted that he actually resented my relationship with his 4 girls, as he sems to have lost the closeness he nce had with them. I told him if he spent more time at home instead of at the pub or Scouts then he might get that back. He said that sometimes when he comes in at night and they are all in the lounge, they get up and walk out and he feels that he might as well have stayed in the pub. They just get tired of him being a dick sometimes and find it easier to leave. As i have always taken care of my finances i did the same in this relationship and he doesn't like that either, but i've said if he wants to do it thats fine by me, but he never does anything about it. He can't handle money at the best of times anyway. So he said he would talk to his girls and find out what they wanted to do and how they felt about the situation. Its about time. They all know whats going on and i've told him we should at least tell them that were having a few difficulties, but again he's done nothing about it. So hopefully my fate will be decided this week one way or another. I just feel too scared to make the first move myself, just in case im wrong.