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Sep 24
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Well, I have to update you dear blog.
I am still in a bad way today and can't think of anything else other the my lost time with my children.
As far as dating goes, I am obviously far to fragile to be able to handle this yet. It seems my date last night was not quite as keen as I had hoped. I am a bit knocked by this which is why I have realised I am much too fragile to cope with the possibility of rejection. After all, divorce and seperation is all about rejection. To risk the possibility of further rejection is foolish in the extreme!
So I will be re-evaluating and licking my wounds for a while and trying to focus on my work. I have two books on the go and a show to be produced! So there is a lot that I should be focusing on. For now, I will stop trying to fight with life and just let it happen. I have little fight left in me for now.
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Claymic78
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Hi Bux Im sorry to see that you are not doing very well. Just to tell you that it is good that you want to focus on your work for the time being. and even taking time out for yourself is ok.... other things will come! take care claymic |
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catfoley
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Sorry your feeling bad Bux and hope focusing on your work will help you get over another drop on the divorce rollercoaster x Thinking of you and sending you lots of ((((((())))))))))))s and xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Hopefully you will  again real soon Love Catxxxxxxxxxxx |
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catfoley
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By the way Bux are you still down South at Weekend ? If so why dont you come along to London do in Covent Garden for lots of cheering up x Cat x |
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mirfield
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Buxt The thing with the children must be the hardest thing to bear, but you have to concentrate on the fact that you do the very best for them in spite of the circumstances brought about by someone else. I thought you put it well about not fighting life and I'll add to that by saying ban all heavy expectations of yourself. Been trying this myself recently and I'm much happier. Just try to go with the flow-not always easy I know but you see it does make a big difference. Take care Mirf x |
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ivorytower
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Hi bux (((((((((((((Big hugs hun))))))))))))))) The ups and downs seam to come so fast but keep hanging in there....... missing yoru kids must be so hard and it makes me think how lucky i am to have mine with me......children need there dads too............... the next up cant be far away hun!!!!! It was lovely to meet you in london and you are a great guy. your wiki friends are here for you so keep bloging. ivory x |
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Daisy040
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Buxton honey....im really sorry your not doing well....you always seem so chirpy these days...still i guess this is all part of it.. big hugs to you hun..... sending you some Daisies.. mwah ;-) |
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carrie.watling
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Oh Andy, You mustn't feel like that - you have a lot to offer - maybe she is not in a good place either - take your time and it will be ok. Carrie x |
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