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Sep 17
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Email from solicitor today was not what i wanted to hear. Cafcass report doesn't help my case, although I haven't seen it yet, and solicitor doesn't seem very encouraging.
Cafcass officer doesn't seem to have taken on board anything from the 2 meetings. Now I have to hope that I/we can get some of it out in court.
Life at home is becoming pretty grim, living with an alcoholic depressive who won't accept any responsibilty for her future or the childrens. Now she is spending money in a completely irresponsible fashion I assume either on credit cards or further debt.
Roll on next week and the first court hearing. Just hope some common sense will prevail - not holding my breath though.
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IKNOWNOW
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| September 17, 2008 | ||
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Bertie, (((((hugs))))), I don't know what else to say but I am hear for you if you ever need to sound off or need a shoulder to cry on. You are a genuinely lovely guy trying to do best by your children and I believe even your x2b. My heart goes out to you. Take care xx Sarah xx |
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Poppie
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| September 18, 2008 | ||
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Bertie, Stay strong Bertie and hope that common sense will prevail, don't ever give up hope. Poppie x |
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fitbird
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| September 18, 2008 | ||
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Bertie big hug to you. Thank god your kids have such a strong caring parent such as you. have you ever throught about sole care? Also could you contact the credit ref agency and put a disassociation notice with comment that you are divorcing and not sharing finance bar mort? It will protect you and may top her getting credit if you using your income to apply for it? Come into chat or email if you ned to. we here for you xxx | |
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bertie670
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| September 18, 2008 | ||
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Thanks for the comments guys, I will look at the credit stuff you suggest fit - thanks | |
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crazylady
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| September 18, 2008 | ||
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((((Bertie)))) Know how you are feeling re cafcass.Keep strong and get yr points across to the judge at hearing. You are the good parent , the one in the right and dontcha forget it pal! CL XX |
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TryingMyBest
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| September 18, 2008 | ||
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Gosh Bertie - really feel for you. Strange that your solicitor gets to see the CAFCASS report before you do? You need to scrutinise it. It sounds like they are as fallible as the rest of the system, although I've been more encouraged by what I've heard recently. It seems like you are the one who is trying to look out for everyone and keep it together. Maybe they should just give you a sole residence order (although I really don't believe in sole residence personally except in extreme circs)? Good luck with the court stuff. Let me know if you need to chat. tmb |
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marriaa
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| September 18, 2008 | ||
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((((((berthie)))))))) hope you get more joy in court for the children's sake too | |
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Buster_99
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| September 20, 2008 | ||
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Bertie, Sorry to hear this news, but please don't give up hope. Be strong and make your point at court. Hopefully the judge will take note. Good Luck. |
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