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Sep 16
2008
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SexPosted by bertie670 in soon to be ex, sex, breaking up |
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What a weekend, travelled across the whole country, got soaked and sunburnt and still didn't get any!!
But it did get your attention and it makes me smile to think about it again. I think over that last year or so any sort of physical relationship has been absolutely the last thing on my mind, now well who knows.
So to update the blog, working away last weekend so didn't see children until sunday evening. Both very tired and having done next to nothing as far as I can tell. At least I didn't have phone calls on Sat night because their mother was passed out. Both very pleased to see me which was nice. Strangely almost as soon as I walked in the house she announced she was off out and disappeared for 3 hours.
My frustration now is that she has lost her job (2 months ago) and is making no attempt to find another. She is spending money as if there is no tomorrow, quite where it is all coming from I don't know and now has joined the most expensive local gym/spa where as far as I can tell she spends most of the day. This is really beginning to pi.. me off as I am working my b...ls off to provide for the family and get very little time to myself to relax and she is enjoying a life of luxury. I just hope that the courts etc see through it all in due course.
Wondering if I should just move out, continue to pay the mortgage and nothing else and tell her she is on her own? Anyway life feels pretty unfair at the moment and we have our first court date next week re the children. Still waiting for the cafcass report.
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Metalraver
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| September 16, 2008 | ||
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Sounds like you've got it tough there bertie. Its so nice that the children appreciated you. You're right its not fair at the moment but it will get better (don't stop believing). Take care of yourself. ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((man hug))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Dave. |
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fitbird
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Glad to hear you didn't get a call. Talk to the kids in case she is pushing them to cover up for her. You need to toughen up. Can you pay the wages into your a/c and give her an allownace? You are not a doormat and you are divorcing, you do not have to keep paying for her extravagences. Big hug xxx | |
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IKNOWNOW
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| September 16, 2008 | ||
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Bertie, (((((hugs))))), you did get my attention with the comment about sex, lol. I do think you need to think again re: finances. Make it clear what she is spending and what you are spending, I think the idea of a seperate account is a good one. Will chat or message you later babe. Just hold onto the time you had at the weekend, not enough beer and too many sausages, lol. Take care "Bertie" xx Sarah xx p.s. still have a bite owed to you, lol |
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Shelia
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Bertie Got my attention too. Turned to your blog first. It is tough for you at the moment seems time to talk about a budget, and as you say maybe move out. You will have to do it one day in any case. Take Care Shelia X |
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