Well.... it seems after seven weeks of virtually no contact my x2b cannot talk to me enough!!!!!

He called twice yesterday...... three times today.....

The upshot of it is ...... he wants 'to get things sorted'.....

Yesterday he admitted to having an affair - today he denies it - "I'm 55 years of age for christ sake".......

During the first phone call today I advised him to get a solicitor..... he called back 2 or 3 hours later...... "I've seen a solicitor"..... jeeeez - I wish I could see my solicitor that quickly!!!!!

He also told me that he had 'sorted the mortgage'...... I assume that means

Where to start.....

Well.... a quick recap.... over seven weeks ago now, my husband left... wiping out our finances as he went....

He didn't get in contact....I wasn't sure exactly where he was..... but through sheer luck, I managed to find out... thanks to him not redirecting his mail....

Anyway.... skip to today - what a day!!!!!!

Firstly, the post brought his mobile phone bill..... there was one number that came up hundreds of times.... a mobile number.... then there was another number which also came up a lot - a landline number....

It didn't take a genius to figure it out..... and although I

Well.... at last he has been in touch!!!!

He was FURIOUS!!!!

"hello" - - - "why have you changed the locks????"

It seems that he came to the house, I don't know when, I didn't ask him... seemed pointless, as I'm sure he wouldn't have told me...

He just kept repeating "why have you changed the locks?"....errrrr.....d'oh....

Could it have something to do with the fact that you buggered off six weeks ago wiping out our joint account as you went?...... could it be that you have witheld contact details when I asked for them?.... could it be that I wouldn't treat a dog (sorry dogs) the way that you have