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Sep 16
2008
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how can i go!!!!!!Posted by fish6 in dealing with emotions, children, bad day |
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i feel i owe all and sundry an apology for my outburst of a blog last nite.....!!!!!!!!!!
first of all how on earth can i leave with so many nice ,encouraging ,helpful,kind and caring comments ,txts and phone calls ,you lot are so nice to me it's humbling !!!THANKYOU
the techi stuff was just the final straw after ihad spoken to my daughter!
i'll explain she asked me to take her and her boyfriend out for the day on sun .......nothing wrong there at all !!but when i found out i was only asked because my ex woudnt take her i felt used again !it seems i am just there for when the ex has something else planned !
don't get me wrong i make the most of seeing my girl because its not that often ...but my ex has made the choice to look after her and now i find that when she cant be arsed i have to step in (i did most of the home stuff and caring for my girl!!because ex was too busy with her work!!!)like i said used ??
rightly or wrongly i sent an angry txt to the exlast nite to which i got an angry one back but i wont see my girl be neglected like i was !!!!!!!..... a good friend reminded me i'm better than a slanging match by txt which you tend to forget when angry??? so i txt to the tune of, i want to be more than a taxi when it suits and want to be more of a part of my girls everyday life to which no reply !!
i will not allow my girl to go off the rails not now !don't think she will but at 15 she is not an adult she still needs parental guidance just a nudge in the right direction so im going to make sure i see her 2 or 3 times a week to make sure she follows the right path because my ex i dont think can!!! anyway now you know why i was angry and wiki took the force of it
i will learn how to do this pc stuff if it kills me im not stupid have already sorted out an ebay account and a paypal account so im sure i can do wiki site ????????????
thanks again for all your lovly words cya in chat !!!!!.........kev
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Tarnlass
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Nice to know some of us got thru to you Kev. Lol As is everyone, you are a valued member of wiki and I can't wait for the day when you pass some techi knowledge on to a needy newbie. It WILL happen you know. Chin up Mate. Tarn. xxx Ps. Still can't remember the p/word (pmsl) |
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Angel557
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yes your staying put even if we have to glue you to your seat......  |
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saffy1968
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Oh Fishy Wisy!!! Glad you are staying Saffy xxx |
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JJ50
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Ah yes, teenage girls, ex's, more rooms than one on the wiki site. STRESS!!!!! have all three myself so know what your going through especially the worry with the teenage daughter. see you in chat JJ xx |
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carrie.watling
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you are not separated from your daughter just the wife. if you were still together - you would of got the same treatment teenagers! enjoy your time with them - piss the wife off! |
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kidsinbulgaria
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Fish - Wiki has got you hook, line and sinker mate..... Without low moments we will not have a yardstick to compare great moments against... Many more great moments to come in your life Kev so chin up, chest out, tummy in and onwards and upwards. Speak soon. Mike |
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Turumbar
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welcome back fish and hello "MC fishmeister"  Great to see you back in chat, I'll but you a beer in Birmingham Take care mate, Tur ((Big man hugs)) |
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Young again
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((((((((((((((((((((FISHY-FISH-FISH)))))))))))))))))))) I know exactly what you mean and it took a few small thermo-nuclear telephone 'conversations' before the chauffeur-servant role abated - it hasn't disappeared because parents are mostly chauffeurs for teenagers anyway! It sounds as if you're sticking to what you know is right Fish, that is the real Fish coming out - fantastic! It might feel odd/bad/sad now, but you have a life too and do not exist only for filling gaps in your ex's life. YA |
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Shelia
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Fish We all have our moments and get stressed. Don't give it a second thought. You can't leave yet we are not finished with you! As others have said teenagers do make you feel like you run a taxi service and take you for granted, but luckily they grow out of it. So hang on in their and keep blogging! Shelia X |
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