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Sep 15
2008
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18 years and it has come to this.Posted by townie in soon to be ex, my day today, breaking up |
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My daughters birthday today.Have had pleasant day, but this evening when she saw s2bx he went out with daughter to the pub(my suggestion),but took his 'girlfriend' along.I am just so hurt by this.I can't see why my daughter should be with him and her on her birthday when it was me that had her,me that has been there for her, me that peacekeeped to get her and her add together for the birthday, and he has to drag his woman with him.Its not fair, and not on.
Another first..this time last year we were together we were rowing and yes he was with his other woman but I thought that we were working things out.It seems very unfair for him to be rubbing my nose in it, by taking her with him and why can he not just see my daughter on his own.If things were the other way around, I would have made a special effort for it to be just me and her.
Even on saturday, the day she really celebrated the birthday the bitch of a girlfriend was sitting in the car watching her go off in her limo..she couldn't even stay away then.Insensitive or what.I am just so very tired, and upset of it all.I would never have wanted to be a single parent and I have been robbed of it for what reason, I don't know, and for her?Still don't understand what the appeal is and it just has made me doubt my very existance.
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determined
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| September 16, 2008 | ||
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Hi townie sorry don't know ur full story as don't always read blogs sorry. the thing is he is just seeing things from his point of view. They are insensitive as they have moved on. My hubby has been the same - collected his golf clubs with her in the car. Picks son up in her convertable brand new mercedes. mmm and yes who was the one who had tha affair - ah yes him. they think they are the bees knees but soon u will not care - i don't. But u need to try to forget about him and think of u. you should also point out his insensitivity. i told mine never ever to bring her to the house again and if he wished to pose pose elsewhere. good luck determined |
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fitbird
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| September 16, 2008 | ||
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Hang in there it does get easier. And eventually the novelty does rub off and the ow is suddenly a normal woman and all the usual day to day crap hits. It was very insensitive and they should have thought, but you maintained dignity and were the better woman. Hang in there hun, don't doubt yourself, she is flashy new novelty, one day he will either see grass isn't greener or he will be that typr of person and be unfaithful to the ow. Look after yourself and be selfish with me time xxxx | |
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JJ50
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| September 16, 2008 | ||
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That is horrible i too would be hurt by this How insensitive can you be MEN!!!! |
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carrie.watling
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| September 16, 2008 | ||
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how painful for you (hug) the thing is he may not have wanted her there - she may have tagged along because she is insecure. i am sure your daughter didn't want her there. Try not to think about it - gone, done now, can change how other people act unfortunately. Take care x |
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