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Sep 15
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Dearest blog reading friends,
I was thinking about how to blog this last night, and then I received this mail from an old female work friend this morning, and thought I may as well just stick this in my blog, less the names etc!
Sent: 15 September 2008 09:36
To: Me
Subject:
What's going on with XXXX then? I see she's changed her status to single!
You and the kids ok?
From
old female work friend
My Response
You are such a gossip old female work friend lady.
She came around to my place yesterday to explain why they split, something to do with a big fight, and XXXX threatening to hit daughter a couple of weeks ago, its hard for me, because I have no real say in who she introduces into their lives, all I said when she said she wanted to introduce this guy was be sure that you keep their best interests at heart, only problem is she is a bit mad, so I think she has to take what she can get, he moved out on Saturday I think, she had to get her brother and one of his friends around to make sure he left, the kids were with me this weekend.
I think she expected me to kick off about it, there was not a lot I could do he didn't actually hit daughter, but even so, it's not exactly what you want for your kids. She told them yesterday, they seem pretty happy about it, keep asking me why I don't move back, it's hard to explain to them that their mummy is a mad woman from hell, when you have to tow the line that we split because we were both very unhappy!
Her brother XXXX called me last week, I think he wanted to tell me what had been going on, but I missed his call, I am going out for a pint with him on Wednesday, he wants to "talk to me about his sister" oh deep joy!
So in summary, the kids are fine, I am still happy to be with out her, and she is as mad as ever! She's probably looking for the next victim/crazy to bring back to the lair, hence the declaration of being single on facebook! It's like a soap opera that costs me loads of money and heart ache to witness; at least I am not one of the main characters any more!
Told you it was about to get harder again wiki friends, I can leave her, but as long as my kids are with her, I cant get away from it all, time for action maybe?
GM
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fitbird
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Oh goodman ((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) you just do not need this from her. As long as the kids are ok that is your only concern, she needs to get herself sorted. I don't know perhaps it would make the kids laugh if you told them she is the mad wonam from hell????? Come up wih a nickname for her, something like an anti superhero name???? Wikipeeps here as ever:-) xxx | |
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crazylady
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Yes, as long as the kids are o.k. Do you think this will wake her up to the idea that how vulnerable her children are to the situation she is trying to create with boyfriends? Is there no chance you can go for sole residency with children? Take Care CL x |
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optamystic
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Hi Goodman I know exactly how you feel mate.Reading your blog was like a mirror image of events here.I dont confess to knowing a solution,its a learning process but all i can offer is i walk on with my head held high,counting to 10 helps even though you get annoyed reaching 1000. |
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Daisy040
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GM.. not alot i can say to your right now im afraid...just wanted to let you know read your blog and big hugs hun !! one day guys we will be ok, all of us will be until then however we do it, we need to stay strong.. Daisy xxx |
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bertie670
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Hi GM All sounds sadly familar. I would keep in with brother in law, might help move things on. You never know. I am still very much in contact with mother in law and all 3 sisters in law all of whom think I am doing the right thing!!! Good luck Bert. |
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mezzie1
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(((Goodman))) Be there for your kids and don't sink to her level. Keep good friends around you - Not nosey old work friends who just want gossip. |
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