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Sep 14
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This is an interesting one. Perhaps a turning point. She told me she was going out on Saturday night and was staying out until Sunday evening. I don't know who she stayed with - I actually don't care - but what's interesting is that she's not keeping up any pretence any more. Probably quite healthy.
And this evening on her return, she seemed a little less uptight. I think that because we've given up on mediation, which means that there's no forum for her to plan personal attacks on me other than by costly solicitor's letter, she's less hostile. For example, when I adjusted the schedule on the fridge which says who's taking the kids to and from school etc to ensure that it was fair and she didn't even make a big fuss. She's out late two evenings a week (pretty normal), but isn't making silly demands that I'm out when she's in or anything like that.
This is probably temporary. But maybe, just maybe it's the beginnings of a change in approach from her which I've been waiting for. I'm not holding my breath though. There has been moments of relief previously which have been shortlived. And the icky legal divorce stuff is only just kicking off.
So if the mood turns again, I must remember not to be too disappointed. I'll keep you posted.
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Shelia
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| September 14, 2008 | ||
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Tryingmy best You seem t o be coping with an on going difficult situation. Hope the easier mood continues for you. The break up days are the worst, after that it does gradually get better. Come into chat to boost yoursself up it helps. Shelia X |
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| September 15, 2008 | ||
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Hi, I don't want to rock the boat, but in my experience you will have times when it will all go wrong. Once the legal stuff kicks in it takes on a different tone and resonable seems to go out the window. I hope you can keep it sensible but be prepared for hassle ahead. |
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