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Sep 12
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Well thats my option. He has no intention of introducing me to his friends. He said I was pi**ing him off by asking. He said be patient and wait and see. It is his way or no way. I said that was not good enough and unless he had something to hide then surely his friends would be happy to see him reconcile his marriage. He went off on one that I had told a couple of close friends that we had a chance.
Now to me it all says he has something to hide even though he denies it and accuses me of being paranoid. Even if he not sleeping with her he seems to want his single life and with her as the emotional partner and me as the sexual one. Just so not going to put up with that no matter how much I want him. God I felt so great this morning and its all come crashing down now.
He says he has to learn to trust me, well hello sorry if he messed up and I went off on one and flung all his stuff out and told him to die etc etc but I just said I think I actually need to learn to trust him again, I not swanning around with the bartart even if she is just a very close friend now. What a loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ugh angry now.
Update only half hour after his words, he is now texting asking if I looked at any more french properties. He is still wanting me to move to France with him! Am I missing something, surely if we have a chance it starts now not when decides. Does he really think i am going to agree to go with him until I am sure its working? Not even putting effort to property search in as he not putting effort into reconciliation. He is a fruit loop. He is deadly serious about France. I just don't get.
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mrsnomore
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| September 13, 2008 | ||
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Your head must be all over the place hun xx Trust you with what? Putting up with his 'friendship' with the barmaid? Not telling people anything about him? Covering up for the way he is treating you? ((((((Fitbird)))))) this is not doing you any good whatsoever hun. When you are strong enough you need HIM to prove to YOU that all this heartache is worth it. It is more than time he fought for you x Is there any way you can out some distance between you so that you can start to get some strength? You really need to out your foot down or you will be like this for a while until he decides what he is going to do. A chased dog never comes back. For your own mind and health hun, you need to have some time to get stronger and he needs to prove that he is worthy of your love in all this xxxxx And no, I could not go through with the french thing until I knew where it was going x x |
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cindygirl
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| September 26, 2008 | ||
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My stbx kept asking meto move away with him after i discovered his 6 month affair. In reality he is still with her 18 months later, still talking about the day we MIGHT get back together! Its all a ploy in my eyes to stop me moving on, he doesnt want me to meet another man in case it doesnt work out with her, he really thinks i will be waiting with arms wide open!! No way, he made his bed & has to lie in it now, my divorce is in the courts & its staying there until its stamped with my decree nisi. Don't let him play games with you anymore. Tell him if he loves you he will prove it to you today, & that means NO contact with the OW at all! Good luck, Cindy |
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