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Well, I have started divorce proceedings. I had hoped to avoid this for so long but really it was always inevitable. I don't feel too bad now as I am well into recovery but it is still very sad:(
I haven't told her yet as I want to wait until I lodge the papers at the court. But it should be pretty simple as we have already agreed all the financial arrangements. Neverthless, I am expecting a pretty bad month as she can be unpredictable and is (and always has been) a truly expert liar.
Simple yes. Easy? No!
Andy
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JJ50
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(((((((((((((((((((((((andy))))))))))))))))))) Its a big step but am sure you have thought it through very carefully and decided this is the right time for you to file for a divorce. It is very sad, i guess even when you decide that there is no going back nothing worth fighting for anymore in a marriage it can be nothing else but sad. Where there was once love and happiness now there is on pain and sorrow. It is a very ugly road to go down but i guess a journey you have to make. I hope you find some happiness for yourself in the future and remember not all women are liars and cheats there are nice women too and im sure one day you will find another love that deserves you. Take Care, All The Best JJ |
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fitbird
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Big hug, a sad time for you. I hope she behaves and doesn't cause you too much grief and remember as jj50 said above not all us women are bad. xxx | |
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Julian ex FBGS
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And some are 'not 'arf bad'  |
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fish6
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hi bux sad indeed when it gets to the crunch but if like me your peace of mind is all important too fortunatly you found wiki so you can rant at us lot anytime so many peeps have helped me good wishes mate kev |
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spooky
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Hi Buxt Thinking of you Love and hugs Spooky xx |
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anuska
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Hi Buxt, Glad to hear your are on the road to recovery.I think you will find that when the divorce is finally done and dusted the journey to recovery will be even greater. Then your new life starts together with emotional healing. There will probably be ups and downs but you are getting there." Unpredictable, Lier " well be prepared and stay strong. Good luck, Anna.x |
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anuska
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P.S Unpredictable and lier! Rings a bell with my xtb. | |
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Shelia
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Hi Bux Facing the inevitable is always hard but you having made the decision to end it you can now look forward to a happier future even if it is beyond some immediate problems. You are taking the first step in putting the past behind you and moving on. You know all us wiki peeps are here for you if you need to chat or blog. Take Care Shelia X |
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mirfield
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hello bux hard decision but if you're anything like me u probably accept that it's the only path. all i can say is the actual legal process can kick up many many emotions. i received my decree absolute less than a week ago and the shock is still unbelievable. i know the piece of paper has my name on it but doesn't really seem to be me. i'm sorry if anyone disagrees with me but divorce is an ugly road however hard u try to be amicable. i really do wish u well bux and ensure u have good mates around for support. Mirf x |
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carrie.watling
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Hi andy You have taken your time reaching this decision and it will still be painful. You loved her dearly enough to commit to a future forever with her and her behaviour does not change the commitment you made to her - only that she doesn't deserve a kind man like you. Look after your heart Carrie x |
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