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Sep 04
2008
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CafcassPosted by bertie670 in dealing with the court, child contact residency, breaking up |
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No time to be on here at all really. Grabbing time when possible but many people to ring tonight after the first Cafcass meeting today.
Meeting not so bad, stbx got very excitable, emotional and specific in her comments about me. I could see the cafcass officer looking quite surprised at times and despite him trying to tell her what was required etc I am not sure she took it in.
Anyway good comments that I took from it were that courts do not want to impose orders and prefer to approve personal arrangements - what I have been telling her since Feb. They prefer joint arrangements if possible so that children have contact with both parents and he even said on an equal basis. If so then that is exactly what I have been asking for.
Now have to make suitable living arrangements and try and agree something with she who is no longer to be obeyed!
Lack of time prevents me from writing more but feeling slightly more positive about it all tonight.
Look forward to meeting some of you lovely wikipeeps on Saturday.
Bert.
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| September 04, 2008 | ||
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Well, hopefully you can both take things from the meeting Bertie, seems you have any way. Maybe knowing that the court isn't going to wave a magic wand and put a contact order together for you, may make her think again. Will be nice to meet you on Saturday. Haven't forgotten your little bite that you want, may leave a mark with added lippy tho hun. Take care of yourself and look forward to a weekend with friends and putting aside your worries for a few hours. mwah mwah as Daisy040 would say. xx Sarah xx |
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