To anyone feeling this day is a marker of time and change, to anyone who might feel a bit down with the turning of a year, please be kind to yourself and remember that we invented these 'markers in time' and that it doesn't have to signify anything more than a different number to write on the date space.

It is still winter, the weather doesn't change just because it is a new year; and if you don't use it as a point of reflection to see what hasn't happened or what the last year brought you, it will feel much better on your soul.

 Nothing much has changed for me in almost 3 years of singledom,

Here, alone, I quietly sit, wondering if this is it.

Outlook grim, future stolen, heart in shreds, eyes all swollen.

People tell me think of self, eat, sleep, breathe, look after health. 

Easier as time goes by, how do they know? ..... Who am I?

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Kindred spirits Wikipeeps, friends in passing, friends for keeps.

I don't feel so