Sunday Morning back to bed

Sunday is a luxury now as I get a cup of french coffee pick up the book and head back to the comfort of my bed,after all that I have been through over the years I make time to rest up . I used to head back  here on my worst days to my bedroom sometimes I would take a sleeping tablet when I got up and go back to sleep again escaping from this awful nightmare .

In  the earlier days the social worker would not ring up she would just turn up out of the blue  in the 4 wheel drive would turn up with a  family aid un announced . You see it is against the law to call them social workers if they are not in-fact SW's.So I would make a cup of coffee some lunch and to  avoid anymore intrusion into our home by letting them in  ,I decided I would make her ring up and ask first if this was ok to turn up .I never had a minute back then to rest or even buy fresh food whilst these assessments were going on and I got given the general run around.

Someone later said to me it is necessary to train some people just like you would a dog. With this sound advice I made sure this social worker never ever intimidated me ,later on she tried her hardest to abuse this position.I did eventually have her trained like a dog ,making her deliver letters by hand to my solicitors office .Confidential letters which you the public or 3rd party must never see! All the lies & perjury that social workers say and the stuff that goes on behind the secret closed court doors.

The last post my ex-partner just did not get the part about his son having  cancer at all.This was about him not his son what he needed to get out of all of this before it was too late. So he continued in a manner he has done all his life. With attacking me which is a form of bullying.So when professionals who have since had to work with this father have written up  reports for court I am not surprised they have encountered the same problems ,he has a past of a history of violent crime and is well able to protect himself. So  this hard man reputation is not going to wash with many that I am the one who was violent.

I am not even going there to answer the allegation my son has done it for me later when in a session with DR B she came out and asked him did your mother ever.........

It is a pity  she did not listen instead of creating a picture of Parent Alienation Syndrome for the court. IF my son says" he was hit you listen to who IT  was he say's "HIT  him "you do not shut a child up, this is what she done,the expert witness,she  shut us up for £150 per hour making a sick child travel to her clinic as she does not travel herself .

Please note he,(the father ) does this at his earliest opportunity in supervised contact. Later on  he is asked to leave Purple Professionals Contact centre by the supervisor  for intimidating his son , I will not say what he asked him about on here only he is defensive it is about his own conduct. So much for protecting against future emotional harm !!!.

 11th August 2004  Leagrave Family Centre 2:30 

The first thing he said to me was "they are making me see my dad"when I arrived.  

Question Then he asked me how he got the lump in his chest ? ( large mass) ALLT cell leukaemia

explain about the blood how it works ; all about the white count, how this all changes it can collect  together to form a mass or tumor.

Question;How long would he have treatment for 

answer is : 3 years  

question :would he be alright?

yes prognosis good if he takes the medication

question :would he grow up alright would he get the hickman line out  then would things be ok ?

answer we certainly all  hope so .

The time has come for me to leave the center he picks up on I am nervous to leave ,so he offers to walk me out to the taxi. I do not want to see my ex-partner,not after the allegations and lies he has no respect for me having brought his son up single -handed so far with no concerns. These allegations are unfounded and unnecessary we are going through enough heartache,most of all C is suffering worst he is the child his pain is far worst than any of the adults here , plus he is a 7 year old child who is  very scared about what is going to happen to him in the future.

What will happen to him will be a shock to you !